“Love crosses no boundaries” Well,
that’s probably the reason why we see a lot of couples together regardless of their
age, gender, status, physical appearance and racial distinction. But honestly, others
don’t simply understand “acceptance”. I’m not writing to offend anybody but it’s
just that I also want to know why
certain things aren't appreciated in some ways.
certain things aren't appreciated in some ways.
As I picture some instances, it’s
not even a big deal why Asian women dating white men. It actually happens even
in pre-historic years. My Aunt used to marry a white man. Do you know what’s
good about it? He loved her. Of course we would not want to include divorce in
the story but uncertainties can happen. They got separated and walk with their
own separate lives. Let’s say, he’s friends thought that “she isn't enough for him”.
That’s the sad part.
Asian women are conceptualized on
some “degrading” perceptions and it actually hurts. A LOT! We are what we are
and we’re actually no different from others. Not because we sit on the floor
while eating doesn't mean we’re uneducated. Not because some of us can’t
pronounce proper words in English doesn't mean we don’t know how to
communicate. Not because we find it hard to translate foreign languages doesn't mean we don’t understand. Not because we’re Asians doesn't mean we can’t fall
in-love with white men. It actually takes a lot of acceptance from that. (And a
lot of guts to say this)
Well, I might be able to say that
things like that really happen and it’s part of some cultural beliefs. Maybe we
just have to open our hearts to deeply know the essential piece of value when
it comes to racial differences.
I personally like the idea of
unconditional “LOVE” itself. But what actually makes me like it even more is
the perception of how we should deliver that love for that certain person without
minding other people’s invalid point of view.
PEACE!!