Every relationship is extra
special. It is not just about how you met and get along but it is all about the
idea of being committed to each other. It may vary from different aspects and
may have the advantages and disadvantages of handling both emotions and
desires. The misconception about a strong relationship is that it doesn’t just
happen automatically when you decide to give the full trust and love to the
person. The process actually goes a long way.
There are three underline reasons
why every relationship fails to survive. It may not be that serious for others
but it has all the exact explanations why certain relationships come to an end.
One of those valid reasons is the
Absence of communication. A lot of relationships end up because they find it
hard to communicate. Love, in a certain way vanishes in a slow motion because
communication happens to be unnoticed. Problems are never discussed they are
always left unsolved. Due to lack of self explanatory, the other half find it
more complicated to describe what they want and what they don’t which results
in a successive arguments. Person who feels pressured will never get to
articulate what kind of basis he or she has to explain. Fear of getting hurt, ignorance
of the habits, and insecurities on oneself are the main sources on the absence of
communication which somehow never given an importance.
The second reason would be
friends and family interference. It may sound a façade for an invalid reason of
break up but in reality, it actually portrays a big role in every relationship.
The negative comments and approach of the person’s most valued people affects
the emotional stability of the feeling that he or she had for her or his
partner. A typical dislike from someone you love could be a deal breaker and
lead to a more complicated boredom and lose of attraction which is somehow
understandable. An awkward feeling of having this high maintenance friends and
family actually exists and is considered normal.
Last but not the least is the differences
in the relationship. There is always a problem when it comes to the process of
acceptance. The bad habits, the natural way of an easy going life, the unwanted
traits, everything a person never wants his or her other half to have which
results on more intense arguments, unreasonable demands, misunderstandings, and
break up. The simple idea of not being understood may find it easy to seeks
interest and attention from someone
else’s comfort that direct an end on the relationship by means of having a
third party.
A lot of times, people are
actually afraid to deal about what they can’t handle and end up messing the
things they started. When you enter a relationship, you will have to decide to
take risks and make some adjustments on your part to be able to realize where
you can certainly attain the kind of happiness and contentment that you deserve
for a better working relationship.
